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accountability and discipline

Monday, February 6th, 2006

(This post was written last week, Wednesday, February 1, saved but never posted )

Because of the news lately, I’ve added a blog-search feed to my blogwatcher that looks for blogs containing references to Faith Harbour, Randy, Eklektos or … well, me. Today, after the Christianity Today article was published this morning, two new blog postings appeared, The Prodigal Sheep, and A Classical Presbyterian. They each raised the issue of the church to enforcing its “rules”.

It’s true that Christians need to hold each other accountable. And the Churches needs to hold congregations accountable. But, to what or whom are we accountable? Church rules, specific interpretations of scripture, traditional doctrines? In a church that acknowledges that “there are truths and forms with respect to which men of good characters and principles may differ” (G-1.0305 of the Book of Order of the Presbyterian Church (USA)) our strength comes in our ability to hold each other accountable to growing, learning, praying, reading scripture, studying, and discerning the will of the Spirit.

Accountability and discipline is not about punishment. It’s not about control. It’s not about keeping the right rules. It is about learning and practicing a way of life. When I discipline my daughter, I do so not to “keep her in line” or to be sure she grows up to be just like me, but to help her learn appropriate ways of living according to the values our family lives by. A community of believers also have a responsibility to hold each other accountable to a specific way of life — Christ’s way. And we do that, not by shunning or judging or excluding, but by entering into relationship with each other as we encounter the living Christ.

I think the church needs to hold its members and leaders accountable to the marks of discipleship … daily prayer, Bible reading, spiritual friendships, significant giving, regular worship, and meaningful ministry or service. When we hold each other accountable to that … when we hold ourselves accountable to that … the rest will fall in line. I think many of the problems our churches have faced are because we are not paying enough attention to how we live the path of discipleship, and, instead, we attempt to “discipline” good, faithful people for not following the rules.

One Word: Prayer

Sunday, February 6th, 2005

If I were to boil down everything I know about transformational ministry into one word, it would be … prayer. I have learned to never underestimate the power of prayer in a church attempting to turn-around from a shrinking, aging congregation to a thriving community of believers.  Prayer is more important than programs, curriculum, praise bands, small groups or even money in reaching the un-churched public.  I am convinced that if a church is serious about growing, it must be serious about prayer.

Now, I’m not talking about the constitutionally required words of devotion offered during the first three minutes of a session or committee meeting.  I’m not talking about the prayers for people’s health concerns that make it to the prayer chains in our churches.  Both of these have their place in church-life and are a blessing to many.  No, I’m talking about life-changing, mission-discerning, intentional, time-intensive, and sacrificial prayers offered by the whole congregation calling on the Holy Spirit to fill them and lead them through the transformational process. 

I think it’s time to look at the kinds of prayer we’re offering most in our congregational lives.  I hear lots of prayer requests – requests that God will keep people safe while traveling, that God will make sick people well, that God will help a program or effort of a congregation go well.  Certainly there is benefit in offering these kinds of prayers.  But, dare I say, these prayer requests are more about God blessing what we are doing instead of about helping us become more about what God is doing? 

Brian McLaren wrote:  “Our persistent “bless-me” bug, like a nasty flu into which we keep relapsing, creates what some of my friends have called “the great commotion,” a close approximation of the Great Commission, but a miss nonetheless. Seminar junkies accumulate plastic-covered notebooks that could fill an oil tanker. Authors like myself write books whose combined gross weight may exceed the weight of our congregations after a pot-luck dinner. But not much changes.”

Not much changes, because in transformational ministry, what most needs to change is inside ourselves.  It’s not so much about the style of worship or the types of programs, it’s not about mission/vision statements or designing a “cool” new logo; it’s not about small groups or permission-giving environments; it’s not even about knowing the needs of generation-x or the post-modern world.  No, it’s about our willingness to put aside our busy schedules and our pre-conceived notions about life and church and allow God to mold our hearts, minds, and spirit into the likeness of Christ. 

I have witnessed congregations in serious prayer – 24 hour prayer vigils; committee members entering 30 day prayer covenants; 40 day fasts or periods of intense daily prayer for a vision or discernment in a congregation’s direction.  And I have been blown away by the power of God at work in those congregations.   I have seen miracles! 

Are you interested in congregational transformation?  Do you want your church to move from losing members to gaining?  The first step is the easiest – and the hardest – Pray.   Pray that God will shape your congregation into the vessel most effective at carrying the living water to a parched, dry and dying world.

Printed in the March 2005 issue of Connections, a publication of the Presbytery of New Covenant